Instructions will be forwarded to the "heart" through our psychological device, and the feelings we become sad. Conversely, if the thoughts we choose the information associated with the things he's annoying, for example peseknya nose, bad habits, or his favorite debt, our mind will process them into instructions that we are pleased and happy that the nightmare has ended. Our hearts were glad of it.
Factual and sensitive
When the mind is very powerful influence on our feelings, we mean the factual, the person who always act or be based on facts. But when the mind is very weak influence on our feelings, then we are people sensitive.
People are usually more able to control the factual sense. You see, the mind is able to process the facts recorded in the brain in greater detail before it is put into the "heart".
Calm Down
Instead, people will tend to be emotionally sensitive, because usually when responding to the reality that
faced, his mind does not process the return of the facts recorded in the brain, but immediately put it into the "heart" as is. He process the information with his feelings.
Upper : Calm Down
Left : Happy
Angry
To clarify, take the example of someone accidentally saw her boyfriend was sitting alone with another person of the opposite sex and he did not know. If he's sensitive, brain recording all the events he saw. But his mind does not process straight forward it to the "heart" to be processed. Because the "heart" of the process, he may soon come to them and without direct babibu cast raw punch.
Conversely, if he is a factual, the events were recorded in the brain, processed first by the mind before passing to the "heart". His mind will make the necessary considerations. When lack of data, it will generate other possibilities. For example, the possibility that other person is a relative or friend of his girlfriend. Or perhaps a friend is also her boyfriend cheating. The possibilities are then forwarded to the "heart" as a curiosity. In consideration of these thoughts he might be approached to find out the truth, rather than immediately judge.
Searching
Process that causes people tend to calm factual, calculating, and capable of controlling themselves. Instead, people tend to be sensitive to rapidly agitated, rushed the conclusion, impatient, and difficult to control yourself.
Perceive reality in a positive With optimization of mind, we can control the feelings and also life in the direction we want. With our thoughts can change the feeling of sadness to feelings of love, afraid to be bold, be confident insecure, pessimistic to optimistic, or bored into a passion. It is not wrong if a philosopher, Marcus Aurelius, the view that "Our life is determined by the mind".
If you think about nice things, then we will be happy.
If you think about sad things, we will be sad.
Similarly, if you think about scary things we will be afraid.
It was indeed hard to believe. However, that is. Stanley R. Welty, President of the Wooster Brush Company, argues, "At the moment out of the house in the morning, we ourselves who determines whether it will be a good day or bad, because it depends on how we run our minds. Whether or not we enjoy today is very dependent on how we think. "
If you feel our pockets thinning, and then complain as if we are the most unlucky, it could be the day it becomes the most boring day. But when we woke up, looked out the window and see how the birds whistle
welcome and to feel the coolness of the morning dew, regardless of the deflated bag, maybe we'll find it a good day today. How was the weather that day, no matter what the problem bear the weight that day, the mind that determines our lives. When we think that, that's our life.
My life
All I can do is control the mind. Do not let your mind create the feeling of being uncomfortable. Always perceived in a positive reality.
"When you need to try to smile in the face of any difficult situation. There are times where we had to let go and laugh. Humor is very important in life. Do not forget that simple things can help you maintain perspective, "says Dale Carnegie, the founder of Dale Carnegie & Associates.
When in grief we try to smile, in fact we are trying to extricate themselves from feeling sad. At that time we are
neutralize the negative feelings inside. This is very good and can help us not be too late in grief.
Similarly, when it was faced with severe problems, we smile a little more will help release tension. Next, allow yourself to relax, view the reality before us in a positive way, because then we could take a lesson from what he was facing. Then think about the things that can restore our joy.
Relax time
"If there is a problem, relax. Take your time. Think of it what you will do next, and what actions you for it, "said Welty.
Indeed, there are many things that hurt, which make us anxious or upset. But do not dissolve in it. Do not allow any problems to make us discouraged. Think on the positive things that can be done. Let all problems go without leaving a fatal wound.
That way we will be a tough person who does not easily fall. Our minds become accustomed to always be positive, and we will more easily achieve your goals. Not only that, positive thoughts and confidence we will attract others to join us. They will not let us walk alone to face all the problems. Even be happy to accompany and help us through all difficulties. And more importantly, our lives will become more enjoyable.
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